Ghanaian socialite Efia Odo has come to the defence of reality TV personality Djifa Isabella Aicha Van Staalduinen after she was labelled a “fake baddie” for refusing to participate in a stage interaction with Nigerian musician Asake during his London performance.
Efia Odo has taken issue with the criticism, arguing that being a baddie does not require a woman to be promiscuous or abandon her personal boundaries to satisfy public expectations.
The controversy occurred after videos of Asake’s performance on October 15, 2026, circulated on social media, showing the musician attempting to lift Djifa and place her on his thigh as part of his stage act.
Djifa, however, declined the move and did not allow the singer to lift her. The moment drew attention online, with some users questioning whether she deserved to be described as a baddie because she refused to engage in the interaction.
Efia Odo was unimpressed by the reaction, suggesting that Djifa would have faced a different but equally harsh set of insults had she agreed to the singer’s advances.
In a post shared on social media, the socialite criticised those who equate being a baddie with promiscuity, insisting that a woman can be attractive, confident and fashionable without having to compromise her boundaries.
“You people mistake being a baddie for being promiscuous, and that’s the fucking problem!!! A woman doesn’t want to grind on a man, so you insult her and call her a ‘fake baddie.’ And if she did, you’d call her a hoe. Being a baddie doesn’t mean she has to perform for your approval. She can be confident, sexy AND have boundaries! Djifa is a fuckn baddie you people can hug transformer !!” Efia Odo wrote.
The socialite’s response shifts attention from Djifa’s decision to the expectations placed on women who are considered bold, attractive or sexually confident.
Efia Odo argued that a woman’s public image should never be an excuse to pressure her into an interaction she is uncomfortable with. She maintained that Djifa’s decision to decline Asake’s stage move did not make her any less of a baddie.
Check out her post below.
You people mistake being a baddie for being promiscuous, and that’s the fucking problem!!! A woman doesn’t want to grind on a man, so you insult her and call her a “fake baddie.” And if she did, you’d call her a hoe. Being a baddie doesn’t mean she has to perform for your approval. She can be confident, sexy AND have boundaries! Djifa is a fuckn baddie you people can hug transformer !!
— EFIAODO (@Efiaodo1) October 16, 2026
